After a few years of struggling with dementia, my grandma Shirley passed a few weeks ago. And my heart is broken – just as many of you have felt when someone you love feels snatched from your life.
However, through her accessories, I am able to feel even more connected to her legacy of style.
During her funeral, I wore her pearls, and these days, I make it a point to wear one of her necklaces or bracelets every day. Her gentle touch still touches me, literally. I realize how fortunate I am to be apart of my grandma Shirley’s journey.
Her style has always been impeccable, inspirational, and completely her own. I remember when she bought me a red knit sweater from Ralph Lauren when I was 13 years old, but I told her that I didn’t really need it. (Even then I was budget-conscious!) And I remember her saying to me: “Honey, you should also have at least one quality piece in your closet.” To this day, I follow her philosophy.
to have aligned on her upstairs wall. It was like a museum of purses!
So following in my grandma Shirley’s footsteps, I am starting to do the
same. In this pic, you will also notice how I purposely placed the bag
beneath the Obamas – another legacy in the making. I felt it to be more
than appropriate.
Tags: accessories, fashion, purse, style
3 comments
Posted by: Deborah Pruitt on April 16, 2009 at 5:54 pm
Oh, how very touching… she would have loved to be the focus of your writing.
love, Mom
Posted by: Deb DiSalvo on April 20, 2009 at 8:06 am
Sounds like she was a wonderful woman with style! Sorry for your loss – this article was so very touching. …and, LOVE that purse!
Posted by: Elana on July 4, 2009 at 11:17 am
Yes. My grandmother was a wonderful woman with impeccable style! I apologize for taking so long to respond. I appreciate your interest in my article!