If we can’t be honest with our self who can we be honest with? The mind can be good at justifying our wrong actions and behavior. But, clever self-justification is of no benefit in the long run. If we can be aware of our own pride, jealousy, insecurities then we have a chance to let go of them. But, if we always justify our wrong attitudes to our self then we are lost.
To establish true self esteem we must concentrate on our successes and forget about the failures and the negatives in our lives.
Denis Waitley
Low self esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.
Maxwell Maltz
If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.
Barbara De Angelis
Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.
Baltasar Gracian
The strongest single factor in prosperity consciousness is self-esteem. Believing you can do it, believing you deserve it, believing you will get it.
Jerry Gillies
A person’s worth in this world is estimated according to the value they put on themselves.
Jean De La Bruyere
Of all the judgments you make in life, none is as important as the one you make about yourself. The difference between low self-esteem and high self-esteem is the difference between passivity and action, between failure and success.
Nathaniel Branden
Having a low opinion of yourself is not “modesty”. It’s self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.
Bobbe Sommer
We are the creative force of our life, and through our own decisions rather than our conditions, if we carefully learn to do certain things, we can accomplish those goals.
Stephen Covey
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Posted by: E. Dreier on April 21, 2010 at 6:34 am
Fantastic article. Thank you. I’m just learning all that what you’ve written about. I always learnt to love others and thought loving myself was egoismus. How wrong. I’ve been living the JOY principle; Jesus + Others + You (me) and have been giving myself the last place in every way. Now at the age of 43 it is rather difficult to change past habits but as the good golden rule says: butter later than never. Thank your for your input.
Posted by: E. Dreier on April 21, 2010 at 9:28 am
sorry for the spelling mistake…wanted to be better & not butter