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		<title>Color Me Happy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 07:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Audrey Valeriani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In these last weeks of Winter, the dark, snowy, and rainy days can really make us feel depressed and go stir crazy.  One of the ways in which to combat these feelings can be through the use of color.   Science tells us that the colors we see in our environment including what we wear and the hues of light around us are all absorbed by our bodies and interpreted by our brains and produce certain feelings in us.</p>
<p>According to Wikipedia, “The science of color, called chromatics, includes the perception of color by the human eye and brain.”  For centuries, the  ... <a href="http://chicgalleria.com/2010/03/color-me-happy/">Read More &#187;</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://chicgalleria.com/2010/03/color-me-happy/" title="Link to Color Me Happy"><img class="wppt_float_left" src="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/wp-post-thumbnail/8C0Noj.jpg" alt="8C0Noj Color Me Happy" title="" width="275" height="155" /></a><p><a href="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/dreamstime_97160462.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-13821" title="dreamstime_9716046" src="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/dreamstime_97160462.jpg" alt="dreamstime 97160462 Color Me Happy" width="320" height="480" /></a>In these last weeks of Winter, the dark, snowy, and rainy days can really make us feel depressed and go stir crazy.  One of the ways in which to combat these feelings can be through the use of color.   Science tells us that the colors we see in our environment including what we wear and the hues of light around us are all absorbed by our bodies and interpreted by our brains and produce certain feelings in us.</p>
<p>According to Wikipedia, “The science of color, called chromatics, includes the perception of color by the human eye and brain.”  For centuries, the science behind color and its impact on human beings has been studied.  Thousands of years ago, the Egyptians bathed in “healing temples of light… in specific colors.”  Now scientists have proven that even “a blindfolded person will experience physiological reactions under different colored rays.”  Neuropsychologist, Kurt Goldstein stated, “It is probably not a false statement to say that a specific color stimulation is accompanied by a specific response pattern of the entire organism”  meaning, the colors around us are seen and sensed by our bodies and minds and create different moods and attitudes.</p>
<p>The following is a passage from my book <em>Boot Camp for the Broken-Hearted: How to Survive (and Be Happy) In the Jungle of Love. </em>It describes how each of us can help to control our moods through the use of color:</p>
<p>It has been said that colors can affect our moods and energy levels.  One tip experts say can help us feel better on our “down” days is to choose a great color.  If you notice, offices are usually painted in soothing colors with a hint of something bright here and there to spark creativity, while prisons are usually painted beige or gray to keep prisoners subdued and low-key.</p>
<p>The list below shows the generally accepted relationships between color and mood.  It may also be true, however, that your own interpretation will determine which colors produce a certain mood in you.  It’s all in the eye of the beholder.  Use this model as a guideline to help you determine which color will help you to attain your desired mood or figure out why you may be feeling upset or low, then adjust your color choices accordingly.</p>
<p>Red:  Passion and Energy &#8211; increases blood pressure and heart rate; can produces feelings of intimacy, stimulates the appetite.</p>
<p>Blue: Peacefulness and Tranquility &#8211; soothing; slows pulse rate; can lull us to sleep; can also suppress the appetite.</p>
<p>Green: Calming and Refreshing &#8211; the dominant color in nature; promotes healing.</p>
<p>Yellow: Cheerful and Fun &#8211; grabs attention; represents joy and imagination.</p>
<p>Orange: Warm and Friendly &#8211; less dramatic and passionate.</p>
<p>Purple/Violet: Romantic (and feminine) &#8211; considered an exotic color; represents royalty, spirituality and wisdom.</p>
<p>Brown/Beige: Natural (and manly) &#8211; can bring on sad and wistful feelings.</p>
<p>Gray: Gloomy &#8211; represents solid strength and longevity; can bring back bad memories.</p>
<p>Black: Intense and Stressed (absence of color) &#8211; represents power and authority; thought of as stylish and timeless.</p>
<p>White: Pure (absence of color) &#8211; represents cleanliness and innocence.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that soon, the sun will be more visible, the trees and flowers will bloom, and the all the colors of nature will once again help us to regain a more easy and upbeat attitude.  Until then, try to maintain a positive outlook by surrounding yourself with the colors that make you feel happy, healthy, and peaceful.</p>
<p><a href="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Pictures123-0004.JPG"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-13598" title="Pictures123 0004" src="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Pictures123-0004-150x150.jpg" alt="Pictures123 0004 150x150 Color Me Happy" width="150" height="150" /></a>Audrey Valeriani is an award-winning author, coach, freelance writer, consultant, and former board chair of Self Esteem Boston Educational Institute, Inc.  Her book <em>Boot Camp for the Broken-Hearted: How to Survive (and Be Happy) in the Jungle of Love </em>(New Horizon Press) is about self-esteem and relationships and is available at all major booksellers<em>.</em></p>
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		<title>Is ONE True Love All We Get?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 07:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Audrey Valeriani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It's amazing to think that in a world filled with billions of people each of us should experience love only once during our entire lives.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://chicgalleria.com/2009/08/is-one-true-love-all-we-get/" title="Link to Is ONE True Love All We Get?"><img class="wppt_float_left" src="http://chicgalleria.com/wp-content/uploads/wp-post-thumbnail/qGv1jQ.jpg" alt="qGv1jQ Is ONE True Love All We Get?" title="" width="275" height="155" /></a><p><a href="http://72.47.203.187/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/dreamstime_6489565.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3059" title="love" src="http://72.47.203.187/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/dreamstime_6489565-300x200.jpg" alt="dreamstime 6489565 300x200 Is ONE True Love All We Get?" width="300" height="200" /></a>It&#8217;s amazing to think that in a world filled with billions of people each of us should experience love only once during our entire lives.  As a child I believed in Prince Charming and happily ever after, but as I&#8217;ve grown and my life has taken some surprising turns, I find that there hasn&#8217;t been what I would call &#8220;one true love&#8221; but rather an assortment of loving relationships that have brought me both great joy and pain.  While each has run its course, they have all left me with important realizations about life and revealed new things about myself.  And though I think back on each with mixed feelings, the one constant has been that each change initiated an enthusiasm in me to look forward to the next adventure and expanded my capacity for understanding, passion, and clarity.</p>
<p>I believe that people come into our lives at different times and for different reasons.  I first fell in love very young and that seemed to have been the hardest relationship to get over.  Since then I have been lucky enough to fall in love several times and these experience, I believe, have led me further down the path to where I am supposed to be.</p>
<p>Consequently each relationship has also taught me how to fully process emotions and recognize what&#8217;s important in life.  I mean, if I didn&#8217;t feel the elusiveness and disappointment of a handsome, irresponsible rogue would I ever be able to appreciate a mature, dependable man?  If I never had to deal with lies and deception would I ever understand the importance of truth?  And if I never felt the sting of betrayal, would I know the peaceful security of devotion and respect?</p>
<p>Think about the things you take for granted everyday, and consider never being able to have them again; simple things like your car, coffee, or chocolate.  You go about your business each day just accepting that these things are there for your use but no real emotion is attached because of their consistency in your daily life.  And it&#8217;s the same thing with people.  Living each day safely &#8220;in the middle&#8221; without cheers or jeers is boring!  I believe that without taking risks and maybe experiencing a little heartache, we can&#8217;t truly know how great love can be.</p>
<p>So if you find you are still waiting to be swept off your feet by Mr. Right, take a moment to consider what&#8217;s going on in your life now.  The &#8220;one true love&#8221; for you at this moment might be different from the person you looked for in the past or who you may want in the future.  I believe that as long as we keep moving forward, the circumstances of our lives will change.  And each new situation requires us to expand our interests and interact with new people &#8212; friends and lovers who will love us and for whom we will feel love; people who will make us laugh, support our dreams, and accompany us on our journey at least in this phase of our lives.  And isn&#8217;t living in the moment all we can really do anyway?</p>
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